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“Modern man is marked by timidity and passivity. The effects are toxic, especially to marriages. Jim Lange shows us the way through, with counsel that will surprise you, as it did me. This book is bold, but we’re ripe for straight talk on the topic of producing healthy marriages, for they are the hinge-point to the survival of our social order. This book is bold, but we’re ripe for straight talk on the topic of producing healthy marriages, for they are the hinge-point to the survival of our social order.” ~John D. Beckett; Chairman, The Beckett Companies; Author, Loving Monday and Mastering Monday
"When God created us in His image, He created us male and female. I believe this reveals that the fullest, most complete, and most powerful representation of God in the earth is when men and women co-labor together in the love, honor, respect and unity of God’s character and nature. Nowhere is this more evident than in marriage. Strong, healthy, loving, respectful, honoring marriages empower husbands, wives, families, societies and nations. No wonder the devil works so hard to sow division and discord into these divine unions. If you are a husband whose marriage is under attack, there is wisdom and hope in the pages of Jim Lange’s book. Dig in and discover the transformative power of walking in the fullness of love, honor and respect as the husbands we are called to be. For ourselves. For our wonderful wives. And for our families, nations and the world." ~Robert Hotchkin; Men on the Frontlines; MenontheFrontlines.com
“A dangerous and unexpected cocktail is created when a passive man and an abusive woman come together. Men allow women to neglect, emotionally abuse and hamster-wheel them into a spiral of conflict and self-hatred. Fights over attention and money are barbed with accusations. Sex is grudging and infrequent. Wives, counselors, culture and namby-pamby preachers dispense lame advice. (Hint: Flowers and chocolates will never dig you out.) Here, Jim Lange gets naked about his own failures and points today’s castrated Christian man to a superior way.” ~Perry Marshall; Author, Ultimate Guide to Google Advertising; 80/20 Sales & Marketing; and Evolution 2.0
“As a person who studies and researches human behavior for living, I want to thank Jim for providing all of us with great case studies, lessons, counsel, and coaching about how to take on, and defeat some of the critically important challenges associated with relationship dynamics in the 21st century. His book provides readers with an emotional and relationship-oriented “toolkit” that each of us can use to look in the mirror to see if we are living up to our relationship responsibilities in a fashion that allows our faith to make an impact our lives and interactions with others! Jim has taken on a very sensitive topic head-on and has used Scripture in a way that is essential to realize our full potential, and to better share our lives with others! Thanks Jim!” ~Clinton O. Longenecker, PhD.; Distinguished Professor of Leadership and Organizational Excellence, Executive Coach; Consultant; Speaker; Best-Selling Author
“Thank you, Jim, for having the courage to write this book. This teaching can apply to any relationship where passivity allows one person in a relationship to control the other. Thank you for sharing how this controlling behavior can be done from wives toward husbands when we live in a world that mainly only speaks of husbands hurting wives. I recommend this book to anyone who may be in a controlling relationship that is holding them back from all God has for them. If we ever do fully understand how much God loves us, so we can love ourselves in that way, and with that understanding, then loving our spouses and others will not be such a difficult task. God bless you and protect you as you move forward with His truth.” ~Ford Taylor; Founder FSH Consulting Group / TL-Transformational Leadership
“In The Happy Wife, Happy Life Deception, Jim has touched on a topic that is of vital importance in the body of Christ: the knowledge of God and how important it is to have and understand it. This book reveals the truth of what happens in a marriage, or any relationship, when we don’t clearly see who God is. Jim also shows us how the fear of man and people-pleasing can wreak havoc on relationships and marriages. Thank you, Jim, for exposing the lies many of us believe and pointing people to Jesus. What we understand about God affects everything in our lives—and especially in our relationships! I recommend this book not only for men but for women as well!” ~Michelle Seidler; Prophetic Advisor; Executive Coach; Speaker; Equipper; Michelle Seidler Ministries
“During 45 years of counseling and mentoring, I have watched the viral influence of culture—and its nature in the emasculation of boys, men, fathers and husbands—infiltrate our relationships. My well-meaning mental health peers, both in and out of the Church, are pulled into this shipwreck of lies because there is no other voice to express the collateral damages of unbalanced roles. Jim speaks into this deception, cuts across the #trending fad of our rationalized current world opinion, and calls us back to balance. He speaks both from personal experience and with a burdened passion to help as many as possible leave this 21st century Titanic. His is a challenging voice, calling us to see the truth of our wonderful male and female differences. He calls us back to the balanced freedom Jesus gave us when He said, "you shall know the truth, and the truth shall set you free." ~Dr. James G Johnson, PhD, DCC; Lead Christian Counselor / Executive Director: Keys4-L.I.F.E. Ministry; Best-selling author, Grace: Orphans No More; Marriage Made Simple
“In The Happy Wife, Happy Life Deception, Jim Lange challenges men to walk in the role of empowered leadership in one of life's challenging relationships: marriage. He gives practical steps of surrender, growth, and freedom in being the husband God calls men to be. Start the journey from passivity to Biblical masculinity today!” ~Pastor Chris Bonham; Grace Family Church, Tampa, FL
“In my work with leaders, I often advise couples. One thing I see repeatedly is an unhealthy dynamic at play in their marriages in which one spouse is dominant and the other timid. In this book, Jim has cut to the heart of the matter. The real-life stories he shares are a snapshot of what Christian marriages look like in America today. We have a problem, and this book offers a solution. Brothers and sisters, read this book as a student seeking truth, breakthrough, and freedom.” ~Melvin Pillay; Speaker & Advisor; The Prophetic Whiteboard
“Years ago, I asked a young man why he wanted to be mentored. He responded, “I want to learn from your mistakes.” In his book, The Happy Wife, Happy Life Deception, Jim Lange not only presents the positive, biblically based principles he has discovered through 30 years of experience in marriage, but also invites the reader to learn from his mistakes and failures. Marriage is under attack in the 21st century, and husbands are the primary target. In his engaging style, Jim offers honest, transparent insights into how men today can survive and thrive in what’s become a marital minefield. In his book you’ll find much wisdom in how we can become the godly husbands and spiritual leaders God has called each of us to be.” ~Robert J. Tamasy; Author, Business at Its Best; The Heart of Mentoring
“In a fallen world, all of us in marriage wrestle with the challenges of nurturing the most significant, intimate human relationship we have in our lives—the relationship we have with our spouse. Much has been written about how “we” can be a better couple, or how “you” can better understand “me,” but how do we stay true to ourselves as men in the midst of marital pressure? How do we honor our spouse while also holding fast to the truth that God has for us? These are challenging questions, and Jim Lange has created a crucial conversation around this. I recommend his book not just to those struggling in a marriage but to all of us seeking to grow in our marriages.” ~Chuck Proudfit; Founder & President At Work On Purpose
“Jim offers a fresh perspective on love, marriage, and relationships. He skillfully deconstructs many assumptions and misreadings of the Bible which have bred great dysfunction and damage. I’m grateful for his wisdom and can personally attest to his character and integrity. Countless lives will be positively impacted by this important work.” ~Dr. Kirk Schneemann; Lead Pastor, First Alliance Church, Toledo, OH
“I have followed Jim Lange for a number of years and enjoyed his insights into living as a Christian man in our world. Before I read this book, I knew of Christian husbands who had some issues in their relationship with their wives, but I could not identify what was happening. Jim presents an excellent analysis of the issues which I suspect are unclear and yet common to many. By using case studies, he makes the material interesting and easy to understand. I also like that he is not pushing a formula for handling things but instead shares practical ways to apply Biblical and spiritual precepts and principles to allow for the Lord’s direction in individual situations. I highly recommend reading this book because, even if you do not have this problem in your marriage, I’m confident you will know several men who need to deal with it. The marriage relationship has been under lots of pressure recently, and Jim has hit the nail on the head in identifying what is wrong and how to find a solution.”
~W. Charles Hollensed, D. C.; Past President Christian Chiropractors Association
“The Happy Wife, Happy Life Deception is an openly candid journey of men who have felt like failures in their marriages. By challenging lies and uncovering true identity—God’s design for identity—men find freedom to be who God has called them to be. Thanks, Jim, for writing this book and giving men permission and a voice to join you in authentic manhood.” ~Cheryl Kinnersley, PCC, BCPCC; Northwest Ohio Christian Counseling, Ltd.
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